the truth about life is that you may try to please everyone but few are even considering pleasing you. so put yourself first before them and you will be happier than when you will be when you put them before you.
there is nothing sweeter than the feeling of love when it is being offered and reciprocated,however it is the most bitter feeling when not reciprocated. love brings the best in every person but also the worst in the very same people. it brings smiles and sad faces too depending on what comes forth from it. i do believe every person deserves a chance to love and to be loved no matter how they look. it doesn't matter if the person reciprocates the love or not but if you got love to offer please do. offer your love to that street kid that always begs u for money, for that sick kid in hospital and every kid you meet on your way to wherever you are going. offer it to everyone around you and put that sweet smile on everyone's face and believe it or not you are gonna feel happy and satisfied... :) $)
It doesnt matter what others think about you or what they say or even whose side they are on, what really matters is your opinion on yourself. If you think negatively about yourself you definitely going to be a looser but for a positively minded person about oneself brings joy and success to their lives.